Why Trauma Responses Aren’t a Character Flaw: Understanding Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn
Someone snaps at a loved one over nothing, goes completely blank in a confrontation, or finds themselves agreeing to something
Someone snaps at a loved one over nothing, goes completely blank in a confrontation, or finds themselves agreeing to something
If you ask people what they regret most, a strange pattern shows up again and again: over the long run,
Put a room of capable, well-intentioned people together to make a decision, and something strange can happen: the group produces
“Dopamine addiction” has become the default explanation for why phones are so hard to put down. It shows up in
Perfectionism markets itself as a work ethic. It shows up dressed as high standards, attention to detail, a refusal to
Before you’ve consciously registered a new face, your brain has already made a series of judgments about it: trustworthy or
Almost everyone can name them: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. The five stages of grief have become so embedded in
Point out a clear flaw in a decision someone just made, and something strange often happens: instead of reconsidering, they
Given a choice between a mediocre outcome you can predict and a potentially better one you can’t, most people will
You get the promotion, finish the degree, or land the client — and instead of settling into the accomplishment, a